Have you ever scrolled through Pinterest, seen a beautiful, intricate-looking embroidered border, and thought, "Oh, that's gorgeous, but I could never do that?"
For me, that stitch was the herringbone.
I remember deciding to add a herringbone border to a crazy quilt seam, thinking it would be a lovely touch. An hour later, I was staring at a pucker-y, tangled mess.
Apparently it is supposed to resemble a fish skeleton, but mine looked more like a spider had had a very bad day. (We've all been there, right?)
It looks so complicated! But I’m going to let you in on a little secret: it’s all an illusion. That woven, plaited effect (which, fun fact, is named after a herring fish's skeleton!) happens with a simple, relaxing back-and-forth rhythm.
So, if you’ve ever felt intimidated by this stitch, take a deep breath. We're going to tackle it together.
I'll show you the simple tricks that made it finally "click" for me. For the longest time, I thought the secret was in some complex twist of the thread, but that just made my knots worse.
Thankfully, the real secret is much less complicated. Learning it completely changed how I felt about this stitch, and I think it will for you, too. Ready to see what I mean?
Okay, here’s the single biggest tip that changed everything for me. Herringbone stitch is just two rows of slanted stitches that overlap in the middle. That’s it.
To keep things super neat, especially when you’re starting, it’s a huge help to work between two parallel lines. You can gently draw them on your fabric with a removable ink pen, or just use the weave of the fabric as your guide.
Let’s stitch a row together. I’m using a piece of cotton fabric and some colourful Perle cotton so you can see what I’m doing.
We will begin our embroidery on the left and work towards the right. However, the needle will actually face left as we work, which might take a little getting used to. Once you get the knack you will find it is really simple.
As we are practising, you can start with a knot at the end of your thread.
Come up with your needle on the bottom line, over on the left.
Now, look across to the top line. Move your needle slightly to the right, and take a tiny "bite" of fabric on that line, with your needle pointing back towards where you started. The straight stitch you create will actually form on the back of your work.
(In my example, I counted six holes to the right of where I started, and missed one hole before bringing the needle back to the front. But ignore this if you are not using evenweave fabric.)
Pull your thread though and you will have one long slanted stitch on the front of your fabric. See? Not so scary!
Now for the second half of the magic. Bring your needle down to the bottom line again, a little to the right of where you made your first stitch.
Just like before, take a tiny 'bite' of fabric on that line. The thread will cross over the first stitch... You've officially made a herringbone stitch!
And now... you just repeat what you have done.
It really is as simple as that!
You can even let go of the lines entirely and stitch freehand, like in this example I stitched on fabric I dyed with flower petals.
See? You've done it! Take a moment and look at that lovely, even row of herringbone.
That back-and-forth motion becomes so soothing, doesn't it?
Now that you have the basic rhythm down, you're ready for the really fun part: playing with it.
But before we move on...
A Quick Tip for Tension:
If you find your fabric is puckering, you might be pulling your thread a little too tight. Try to let the stitches relax and sit gently on top of the fabric. It’s a common thing, especially when working without an embroidery hoop (also known as working in the hand).
Now you can start to experiment with the basic stitch to create completely different looks.
Think of these as fun experiments, not rules!
This has to be one of the simplest, most satisfying ways to add a little extra magic to your herringbone row.
You're essentially weaving a second thread through your finished stitches without piercing the fabric at all. It’s so clever!
A Quick Tip on Thread Choice: While you can use standard embroidery floss for the lacing, I have to be honest: a twisted thread like Perle cotton is a better choice for this. It has a lovely roundness that really stands out, whereas floss can sometimes separate and lay a little flat. Why not experiment with both and see which you prefer?
Ready to try it?
You've got it! Just keep alternating your direction, weaving your thread up and down through the diagonal stitches all the way along the row.
It creates such a lovely, decorative wave with almost zero effort.
Instead of leaving a little space between your stitches on the top and bottom lines, bring your needle up right next to where it last went down.
This creates a beautiful, solid braided line. On sheer fabric, this is known as Shadow Work, because you see a delicate shadow of the stitches from the front!
This is one of my favourites for adding a pop to a project.
Just stitch a second (or even a third!) row of herringbone on top of the first, using a different colour. Just make sure to offset the stitches so they nestle between the first row. It creates such a wonderfully textured effect.
Your herringbone row is a perfect base for more creativity.
Try adding tiny straight stitches or lazy daisy stitches at the points to look like little leaves. Then pop a French knot in the middle for a flower. Suddenly, your simple border is a blooming vine!
And there you have it! From a tangled mess that looked like 'a spider had a very bad day' to a stitch that's beautiful, versatile, and genuinely relaxing to create.
The next time you see an intricate-looking border, you won't think, 'I could never do that.' You'll smile and know the secret is just a simple back-and-forth rhythm.
What will you use your new herringbone skills on first?
A quilt seam? The hem of a tea towel?
I'd love to see!
Carol
Now it's your turn! Did you give the stitch a go? Did you discover a brilliant colour combination or have a little "aha!" moment of your own?
I would be so thrilled to see your creations and maybe even feature them here to inspire other stitchers. Seeing your work is the best part of my day!
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