Gentle, step-by-step embroidery lessons
for stitchers who want to learn properly
Whether you're a complete beginner, returning after a break, or a cross-stitcher curious about other techniques β you're in the right place.
I learned to stitch at my grandmother's knee, aged seven. I still remember her gentle touch guiding my hand β and the warm Devonshire burr of her voice as she insisted my untidy stitches on a crinoline lady's dress were "as good as hers."
Later, I discovered counted cross stitch and designed my first sampler for my daughter β a small, brave step that led me into a whole world of embroidery techniques. If you asked me to choose a favourite, I'd be hard-pressed, but it would probably be one of the counted-thread variations.
In time, that dedication led to regular magazine work, my company β X-Caibre Designs β and eventually this website.
You want to learn the basics properly β without me assuming you already know the "obvious" bits.
You're picking embroidery back up after a break and want a gentle, no-pressure refresher.
You know cross stitch and want to try blackwork, whitework, Hardanger, and other techniques.
My focus is simple: make needlework feel doable. That means:
One of the most memorable moments I've had as a teacher happened at the NEC β it would have been around 1996.
A tall young man came up to me and thanked me for teaching him blackwork. He was very distinctive, but I didn't recognise him as one of my past students.
When he brought out his work to show me, I realised why.
It was the blackwork pears design from this website β stitched in black and gold. He'd learned entirely from my online tutorial.
It's exactly why I built Needlework Tips & Techniques: to make learning feel clear, doable, and enjoyable.
"Thank you for saving my life."
After his wife Mary died, a man taught himself to finish her unfinished cross-stitch β the largest design she'd been working on. He made a quiet promise: he would not make any irreversible decisions until the embroidery was complete. Every small, rhythmic stitch gave him a thread of purpose. When he finished, he found my number on the kit packet and phoned to say those six words.
Stories like that remind me that the slow, rhythmic work of our hands can be a genuine companion on difficult days.
You don't need to decide "your thing" yet. Start with whatever catches your eye.
I read every message personally
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